So many people are dying at this point in time, by the hands of the person that claims to love them the most.
Whether it is parents, children, husbands, wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, siblings, or friends.
Now yes, it is true that murder has always been a part of this dimension, however, it is much more common now as an everyday occurrence.
At the mass rate, people are dying in the present times, it is as if it is trendy to murder your loved ones.
So many people have been programmed to love money, things, sex, fame, jewelry, gambling, drugs, & scamming, more than a living being.
Relationships can be very toxic when you love the wrong people that does not love you in return.
Many times people ignore all the red flags, small and big, that cost them their life.
Anyone can tell someone they love them, however, it is their actions that speak louder than any words that come out of their mouth.
The fact is that everyone does not deserve a second chance, depending on the nature of the crime they have committed.
Sometimes, when you give someone a second chance, it is like giving them an extra bullet to murder you with because they did not succeed the first time.
The first slap, punch, kick, infidelity, calling you derogatory names or trying to belittle you, from the one you love, that is your first red flag to get out of that relationship and do not even look back.
Understand, everyone does make mistakes, but every action that someone takes is not a mistake, sometimes it is an intentional act they chose to do to someone for their own selfish reasons.
We are in a time now, when mental illness is blamed for people’s actions even when they are completely sane, so they do not have to take the blame for what they have done to purposely hurt someone else.
People will show you who they really are, when you pay close attention to their whole demeanor.
Yes, it is true that even parents can be highly toxic toward their own children, and in order for the children to have a true healthy shot at life, they must be rescued away from their parents.
Children are being murdered in mass numbers every day by the two people that were supposed to love and protect them the most.
It is extremely important for children to have a voice as well as adults that are truly fighting for them and protecting them at any cost, whether they belong to you or not.
Yes, children are being led to their path of self-destruction now, more than ever before, but with the right guidance, this can all change.
When children grow up in toxic environments, this is usually the type of relationships they will attract personally as they get older.
Some people assume that they can make a toxic relationship better if they just get married, love the person more, or have a child with this person, when in fact that is the worst thing you can do.
It is in our nature to want to give someone a benefit of a doubt, even after they have shown us they could not be trusted, which can lead to being the biggest mistake of our lives and even cost us our life in the process.
It is okay if you want to forgive someone for something they have done and never speak to them again, you are not obligated to still allow them in your life.
Some people have the wrong assumption and think if they just love someone enough, they can change them into a better person, however, it is them that has to choose to be a better person for it to actually happen.
It is also okay if you love someone without allowing them access in your life after you know the true them.
When someone shows you their true colors, such as when they are angry or did not get their way, let that serve as a warning sign.
The fact is, you can know someone for over 20, 30, even 40, years and still not actually know them.
For example, you have a couple that has been married 20 years, then one day one murders the other in the most horrific way.
People are shown red flags that they choose to overlook, because they love the person, not knowing it is leading to many more red flag situations that you will soon not be able to overlook.
Yes, people can change, but that does not mean that they always do change from their wicked ways.
Do not be fooled by the front that people put on temporarily, for you to get your first impression about them.
When someone does not know their worth in its entirety, then they are much more willing to settle for less than they actually deserve.
People can only treat you how you allow them to, with your own permission to do so.
People can turn into someone we do not even recognize anymore, but it is our choice if we allow them to stay in our life or not.
It is a fact that people are dying younger and younger by the hands of someone they truly loved, without ever getting the chance to experience life and being their greatest version they were meant to be.
No one has the right to take another life for their own selfish reasons, that they feel will benefit them somehow.
There are consequences of every action we take, whether positive or negative.
There are a lot of people that fear being alone, so much so that they will sacrifice their lives, health, happiness, and sanity just to stay in a toxic relationship with someone who does not even love them.
Know that you are never alone, for the Divine Creator has always been within you and when you are physically alone, that is the best time to work on being your greatest version.
A master manipulator is great at playing mind games with people to trick a person into loving and caring about them, so it is easier for them to carry out their agendas against people.
Many times people will say they stayed in a toxic relationship with their child’s other parent for their children, so they do not break up the family, however, this is the worst thing you can do to your child, keeping them in a toxic environment that will affect their entire life negatively.
So often the abuse starts between the two adults, but then eventually the abuse starts happening to the child.
It is never a safe idea to have your children around someone that you barely even know.
Meeting someone and only spending a few days, weeks, or even months is not long enough for you to truly know and trust them around your children.
You can meet people that may seem so genuine, because that is who they want you to believe they are, while the whole time they are completely opposite to the character they play in public.
Yes, it would be great if you could always go by someone’s words to trust them, unfortunately that is not always the case, so you have to go by their actions and even then sometimes they still have to be questioned.
When a person wants someone else to like them, they can pretend to be the sweetest person and do the nicest things to reel them in, so they will let their guard down and trust them.
Just a reminder, serial killers can be very sweet and clever, then boom you are tied up in their basement being tortured or even worse, DEAD.
The majority of people that are murdered by their partner, is over money, cheating, a need for control over someone, or jealousy.
So many deaths can be prevented just by being honest with people, and letting them know what it is that you want from the beginning, instead of leading them on false pretences.
You must understand that some people come in your life solely for an agenda they have, to use you just for what they want to, while pretending to be someone you think you know.
Cheating is one of the most disrespectful acts you can do to someone you claim to love, and many times it winds up ending with someone losing their lives, due to the fact most people reacts with their emotions, from what they have been led to believe, who they are to you.
If you are already in an abusive relationship with someone, whether it is physical or mental, you should never consider having a child with this person, no matter how much you think you love this person, for one this will not make them a better person, and you are bringing an innocent life into a very toxic environment.
Children are the most amazing gift from the Divine Creator, and they deserve the best shot at life, with a Mother and Father that loves them.
The only time you should be considering starting a family with someone, is if you are in a loving relationship with someone that has proven their love to you, your love to them, and has shown you that they can be trusted, as well as takes responsibility for their actions.
Relationships are not one-sided, it takes 100% effort from both people, it also takes honesty, loyalty, commitment, responsibility, both people on the same page, two people that mostly want the same things out of life.
Being in a relationship with someone does not mean that you can not have your own goals and dreams, however, you need to know if you plan on this person being a part of them or not and tell them the truth about how you feel.
People can save so much wasted time and heartache just by knowing what their partner’s true intentions are with them.
There is no living being, in this entire universe, that is property of another living being.
When someone feels and acts like you are their property, this is a huge red flag, and you should remove yourself from their presence.
There are so many red flags to look out for that can save your life, when you do not ignore them or laugh them off as a joke.
When you listen to actually hear, a person will let their true intentions slip, whether it is purposely or not.
It is a true statement, that what is in the dark will always come to light, because the divine truth will always prevail, no matter how long it takes.
You should never fight someone else over a woman or man, unless you are genuinely protecting them from harm.
If someone genuinely loves and cares about you, they will never put you in a harmful situation against someone else that they are also having relations with, to have to fight for their love, loyalty, honesty, affection, time.
Cheating is an intentional act, it is not something that just happens, there is no reason for a second chance, what is stopping it from happening again if love was not enough to prevent it in the first place.
Words speak loudly, if someone tells you they can not live without you, you are the only reason they are alive, or if they can not have you then no one will, this is a huge red flag, and you need to remove yourself from this relationship immediately.
It is not healthy or safe for someone to completely revolve their life around someone else, due to the fact this can lead to a total mental breakdown, that can send someone over the edge if something negative were to happen between the two people.
No one in this entire world has the right to control your life, which is why you were born with free will, in fact the only way they are able to is by you giving them permission to, whether verbally or silently.
Another red flag is when you have a partner that is jealous of your relationship with your children, parents, family, or friends and is always trying to keep you away from them.
Understand this, if your partner is trying to move you to a place where they are the only person you know, away from your support system such as friends or family, it is not for you both to have a better relationship and 95% of the time it ends badly, because it was only for them to control or abuse you.
Someone that tries to dictate your every move by telling you how to dress, how to wear your makeup, where you can go, who you can talk to, who you can be friends with, when you can leave the house, how long you can be gone, monitors your phone calls or follows you to spy on you, these are all red flags, this is not love.
Now, when you are in a relationship, there is a level of respect for one another that does apply however, it is a big difference between control and respect.
In a relationship where both people are putting 100% effort in, there should be no reason that both people do not have each other’s passwords or access to all devices.
With complete honesty between two people, there is no reason for someone to not be able to answer their phone in front of their partners, or have secret friends the partner does not know about.
These red flags do not just apply to lovers, it also applies to friends and even family, due to the fact that murder has happened between family members and friends also.
Over 70% of murders that happen between two lovers, happens when one person is ready to leave the relationship, and they have told their partner how they feel.
You must understand that, if you are in an abusive relationship, you have to move in silence to stay safe as possible, it can mean life or death.
When someone has thought for a while that they have had control over you, then you get the courage to let them know they do not, if they are not mentally stable, this will send them on a downward spiral, to the point they are willing to take your life, so they still feel like they are in control.
Yes, in a loving relationship there should be no secrets kept from one another, however, if it is an abusive relationship, the abuser should not know all your family members and friends addresses or phone numbers, for one they can always find you when you do escape from them as well as it also puts their lives in danger.
People also have a false assumption that religious people are the most wholesome, honest, genuine, caring, and loving people in the world, but this is completely false, for many religious people have murdered their partner, children, and other people.
Another false assumption many people have is that police, soldiers, lawyers, doctors, judges, politicians, presidents, and many more of these types, people think these people are exempt from being murderers, when in fact many people have lost their lives in the hands of these types of people.
Two people in a relationship that come from different financial backgrounds, often the one with the most money will try to control the other person with money and the threat that they have many more resources, so you could never escape them because of their status and the many people they know.
Know that a controlling person will use any kind of scare tactic to get in your mind to keep you as their prisoner.
Understand that there is no one in this entire world more powerful than the Divine Creator, that lives within you, so there is nothing or no one to fear.
A lot of people has the belief that if they are not caught on camera being dishonest or abusing other people, then they are getting away with their actions, however, this is completely false, the Divine Creator sees every single thing and karma is very real.
I am speaking to you all from the heart and personal experience with these types of situations, and if I can warn people and save lives, that makes me the happiest person in the world.
I personally know too many people that have lost their lives just for the simple fact they loved the wrong people that did not love them in return, and they paid the ultimate price for it.
Furthermore, I will not speak on every single case about people I know personally that has lost their lives by the hands of people they knew and loved, but I will speak on two cases.
The first case is about a man that I worked with every day for several years at a factory, he had a wife of 20 years, 3 children together, went to church faithfully, had bible study every night with other co-workers while at work, was always telling jokes, and was always smiling.
One day, this man decides to start a relationship with another lady co-worker, who also participated in his bible study at work, while him knowing he is married and her knowing he is married.
It was on a Sunday the last time I worked with him, then two days later, which was on a Tuesday at 7 am, this man shot his wife of 20 years, mother of his children, in the head with a shotgun at point-blank range, in front of all 3 of their children, at this point he had been having an affair with the co-worker for 3 months.
The second case is about my longtime friend and also co-worker, he was always a sweet person toward everyone, always laughing, telling jokes, helping people, always in a positive mood.
His mother lived in another state, but she owned several houses, so he lived in one of her empty houses to maintain the property while she was away.
He started a relationship with a woman that lasted around 5 years, then they broke up, however, this woman did not want to break up, so she started stalking him.
One night as he lay there sleeping in the house that he maintained for his mother, this woman shows up and enters the property with the set of keys that she secretly had copied, and shot him at point-blank range in the back of his head, killing him instantly with no chance for him to fight back.
You see, it is possible that you can be laying right next to someone you love while they may be plotting your murder.
It is extremely important to always pay attention to your surroundings, even when you are around people you know.
There is no relationship that is worth dying over, there is not that much love or loneliness in the world, to be with someone that does not care if you live or die.
As sad as it is, having life insurance is important, but at the same time having life insurance with your partner as the beneficiary, can also be a motive for them to murder you to collect the money.
Every person is not run by money, but unfortunately many are, so you are nothing more than a dollar sign to them.
Just make sure you are paying attention to what is going on in your relationship, so if you are shown a red flag you do not miss it because it can be deadly.
Love and respect yourself to the fullest, so you never find yourself in a deadly toxic relationship with someone that could possibly take your life without even a second thought.
