HOW WE CAN HAVE AN AMAZING RELATIONSHIP
Relationships can be truly amazing when there is a complete understanding between two people.
A lot of times what happens to a relationship is that it can become only one sided which means there is no meeting in the middle.
With a lack of understanding it is easier for one to become judgmental of another for there is no empathy for another person.
In the present time it can be much harder to maintain a relationship due to being distracted by many things going on in the world around us.
The present days are somewhat different from even 20 years ago.
In 2020 there are many things that are happening to distract us to keep our minds occupied with things that are not serving our lives positively.
Many times we are not even aware that we are being distracted by unnecessary things because it just feels like it is normal.
Sadly the majority of the youth in this generation only knows the world with social media, selfies, likes popularity, views, and many other things that give people the feeling that this is all that matters in life.
Even in the present times adults have joined in to the feeling of needing to validated by others to feel like their life has any value.
Social media and the World Wide Web can be used for so many amazing things however, it can be used for negative things as well.
When being in a relationship with a significant other honesty, loyalty, respect, understanding, compassion, communication, and empathy are all important qualities to have from both individuals.
With the World Wide Web also come many temptations that can cause someone to become disloyal and dishonest which can create issues within a relationship.
The culture we have moved into at the present time is more focused on individualism rather than unity which can lead to one person giving 100% and the other person only giving 50% to the relationship.
Even in just a friendship between two people problems can still be created caused from one person caring more than the other one.
It is important to choose wisely who we bring into our life and be sure that someone has our best interest at heart for it can end badly when we do not verify who someone is.
Another thing we must realize is throughout our lifetime many people will enter into our life however not every one is meant to stay in our life.
We meet certain people throughout our life by design for they will serve some purpose in our life.
Some people that cross our paths come into our life for the sole purpose to teach us a lesson that we had to learn and will only be around temporary.
Someone can enter our life to show us what we do not want in our life and help us to grow mentally and will also only be around temporary.
Another person can show us what true genuine love feels like from one person to another, and they can be in our life temporary or permanently.
Sometimes when we meet people we fall in love with that person, and we have our heart set on them being in our life permanently, however the reality is that our heart will be broken sometimes for they were only meant to be a one chapter of our life.
So many people do not realize we can not base our happiness on anything or anyone outside us for it has to come from within us.
When we base our happiness on something outside us we can never be completely happy for whoever or whatever it is only adds to our happiness.
Many times people will fall into a state of mind of depression when we lose someone out of our life we deeply loved and cared for.
Even though a heartbreak truly hurts, we must understand that we are still everything without anyone or anything outside us.
A broken heart can even cause physical pain and break us down mentally and emotionally if we allow it to.
A heartbreak truly hurts however, we have the power to move past anything with our mind by controlling our emotions.
When we allow our life to be controlled by emotions, this will always keep us on a negative frequency that will not help us to grow spiritually and mentally.
It can be hard at first when we are learning how to control our emotions for it does get easier when time moves on, and we learn more.
The relationship between our self and our parents, siblings, or family members are important as well and when we lose one of them it can be very devastating.
It is very important that we never take anyone for granted as well as our relationship with anyone for no one is promised to be here forever in any journey of life we come here to experience.
When we are more focused on I instead of we this will cause more people to disappear from our life for someone can feel like we do not value their life only our own life.
When we do not take people for granted we will notice that more people will be in our life a lot longer and sometimes even for a lifetime.
Sometime even when we show another person that we value them and appreciate them this does not mean they will still be in our life longer for sometimes a person can have other plans for their life that does not involve us being in their life.
Losing a parent, child, or sibling can be one of the hardest situations to recover from mentally and emotionally and even though it may get a little easier over time to deal with the pain never fully goes away.
When a devastating event happens in our life such as losing someone we deeply love it can have the power to send us over the edge and completely change the rest of our life.
The reason why it hurts so bad when someone we love transitions into their next journey is because we truly miss that person’s presence around us however, that person’s energy never dies it is only the physical body that does.
What helps us the most in life is making the greatest memories with someone we love while they are alive that last a lifetime, and we can always look back on these memories to feel some comfort from.
Memories are not the same as seeing someone being around you in person for memories are still a positive reminder of the time you did share with someone that are priceless.
The only true thing that is promised to each of us in every lifetime is that we are only here temporary for a certain purpose and some people’s mission is shorter than other people’s.
We are all meant to live life to the fullest while we are here not just breathe for we all have the power to leave our imprint in the universe every time we are here.
HOW TO COMMUNICATE IN A RELATIONSHIP
Communication is one of the biggest factors in a relationship to keep everything on the right track whether it is a friendship, dating, or a marriage.
Many times in a relationship it starts off with a lot of conversing and then sometimes slow down as we find out more about each other.
The reason why communication slows down after we know someone better is due to fear of judgement, lack of understanding, not wanting to hurt someone’s feelings, too much of a difference in individual beliefs, or just two people growing their own separate ways.
No matter what the reason for lack of communication it can cause issue between two people in a relationship.
Another reason there could be issues in a romantic relationship is one person desires to try new things and the other person is happy to stay the same and this can lead someone to seek activities outside the relationship with someone that has similar interest.
In a relationship it is important to know someone’s likes and dislikes as well as their views to see if there are more similarities or differences.
It is possible for us to be in a relationship with someone for years and not even know their true views, beliefs, intentions, likes, and dislikes that is due to the lack of true honest communication with each other about whom we really are the side that we sometimes do not show to anyone.
The more we know about someone in the beginning of meeting them can save us from much heartbreak and pain later down the road.
When we are with someone for a long period of times such as years, and we find out they are not who we thought they were this can cause a lifetime of trust issues that will create problems in future relationships that is based on the actions of one person.
It is important to see the signs we need to see in relationships also that can be very significant in certain situations.
In some situations, a relationship can start off very loving however, it can become very toxic for whatever reason and there are always warnings that we should pay attention to for it can be a life or death situation.
It is true that communication is important however, we should pay attention to someone’s actions to make sure they coincide with each other.
Someone can say anything when they are communicating however, their actions are even more important that their words.
There is a major difference between true love, lust, and attraction, so it is important that we understand the difference.
It is honestly not hard to tell the difference true love that is on the highest frequency and lust that is on a much lower frequency and with attraction being even lower.
True love is when someone loves someone else for their inner beauty and all the natural beauty one holds within their spirit, soul, body, and mind.
Lust and attraction is when someone only sees someone else’s outward appearance, and they are not interested in knowing the beauty that someone else holds within them.
Far to often many people mistake lust for love due to only acting off of emotions and our ego instead of our divine mind.
It is lust that will keep us in a toxic relationship that we know is not healthy for us in so many ways.
When two people share true love for each other it is not possible for the relationship to become toxic for even when you love someone a relationship can end on good terms and you remain to wish them well on the rest of their journey of life.
A toxic relationship can cause our energy to change and make us become our worst version, a person we would not ordinarily be if not for us moving to a lower frequency.
NEVER LOSE YOURSELF
So many of us have goals and dreams that we want to accomplish in our lifetime, however sometimes when we meet people and start a relationship with someone it is easy to lose sight of our self.
Sometimes what we want is not what we need and what we need is not what we want for it is up to us to know what is best for our own life.
It is also great if you do have true love between you and someone else so the plans change from individual plans to a plan as a unit if both people are happy with the whole plan.
If we are not happy within our self there is nothing outside us that can make us happy either for happiness must come from within our self.
When we are involved with things that are not serving our life in a positive light then it will have a negative effect on our reality.
The key to never losing yourself in the world is doing what you love and loving what you do that serves other people no matter what you are doing even if it is making someone smile or inspiring them to be a better person.
A lot of times in a toxic relationship both people have two different views on what they want for their reality and there is no understanding or compromising in any situation that happens in the relationship.
In the beginning when meeting someone new, it is important to discuss both people’s goals and dreams if it is someone we plan on having in our life for a long time, so we are sure to be on the same page with the other person.
It is important we always take care of our mental and physical health before anything for it can destroy us if we do not.
It is not selfish for someone to still want to accomplish their same goals and dreams they had before meeting someone that did not involve the other person for they did not know them yet long as we are not hurting someone intentionally in the process.
It is important for us to be clear about what we want for our life, so we do not end up taking someone else’s time for granted while we are figuring it out meaning honesty is best when describing our true intentions with someone else being in our life.
Another important factor is not leading someone else on false pretences be clear to that person who you feel they are to you so there is a complete understanding preventing a negative outcome in the future.
Honesty will always be one of the most important energies in the universe among everyone.
When staying true to our very own self it is easier to concur the journey of life no matter how long the journey is.
It is important that we all take responsibility of our own life for no one in the world can know what is best for our life other than us.
Words and actions can also be used for manipulation on another person to cause someone to feel fear or guilt for having their own ideas due to someone having an agenda toward you.
Going within our self to seek truth and answers to any questions we may have will always lead us in the right direction toward the path we are supposed to be on in our journey of life.
We must understand how to know when to let something go that is not meant to be in our life as well as know what is important to hold onto.
FINDING YOUR SOULMATE
There are many people that have the desire to meet their soulmate and as well as they believe that there is only one soulmate someone can have throughout a lifetime.
It is possible to have more than one soulmate for we can find throughout the universe that someone can be thousands of miles away from us and have the exact same thought at the very same time as we do.
In this infinite universe we are sometimes meeting people that we feel an instant connection with that feels like we have known this person forever.
No matter what type of people we want to attract into our life they already exist for it is our frequency that attracts alike frequencies.
The type of people we meet in our life has a lot to do with the type of people we are individually, the type of energy we are sending out into the universe whether it is our thoughts or the words we speak to our self and to other people as well as our actions.
When we are desiring to meet a certain type of person as a life partner or as a friend, it is important to make sure our energy matches what we are desiring to attract back to us.
Anyone can also use visualization as a helpful tool for manifesting a person into their life by already seeing that person with their mind as if you were already meeting them in person.
Our energy is more powerful than the first mind can see with the naked eye however, it is the second mind that sees everything with the divine vision meaning our every thought is forming our reality constantly.
One person can have over 65,000 thoughts in a 24-hour span of time for many of our thoughts are repeated thoughts and it is the one’s that spend the most amount of time in our minds that are responsible for creating our reality every single day.
When we take the time to understand how to control our thoughts, so we can manifest the kind of people we want in our life then, we attract them very people, and we can create the life as well as the world we desire.
Many times it can be hard for someone to attract that special person in their life due to not feeling worthy to meet that person.
When someone changes their mind to know their deserving of meeting the person they desire to meet, then that person will appear in their life.
People that appear in our life is not by accident for there is a reason for everything.
No matter what version of our self we are seeking to be, that version of us already exist all we have to do is know it does as well as claim that version of our self.
Our lives can change in a matter of days by controlling our thought patterns to a higher frequency to create the life we do want instead of the one we do not want.
Having a soulmate is one of the most amazing feelings for it is as if both hearts beat at the same drum and one always knows what the other is thinking and feeling for there is a high spiritual connection.
When we do meet a person we feel is our soulmate we must also understand soulmates are not promised an eternity together they are only together for the amount of time needed for that experience we were meant to have for a divine purpose in our individual journey of life.
We are constantly growing into another version of our self every day whether it is a positive or negative version.
Our world never changes until our minds do for it is our minds that creates every thing that we form into the physical.
